Desired Outcomes Define Our Relationships

When a baby cries the mother seeks to learn what is needed. Is the child in pain, hungry, wet, cold, ill? Until she knows what the child wants the mother is unable to fulfill the need or desire. So, she guesses, first rocking and soothing, then offering food, then a blanket, etc., until the crying stops. The mother is a metaphor for how the world operates toward us.

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